One of the key factors in the success of any kind of life is to get some kind of help from others. One can not succeed without the help of others, because no one can knows or do everything around. In any case one needs the help others. Therefore in order to get the support of the other person he/she should know how to behave well with people. By doing this he/she will live in peace. The following are the key principles for living comfortably with people.
1. Love all people without exception. Because all were created by God. He is the Father to us. Therefore everyone has come from God.
2. Respect everyone and see he/her is very important and meaningful.
3. Do not misbehave to anyone because of its condition, even if he/she is poor, even if not educated or does not have a higher rank and so on.
4. Be a person of joy in God always.
5 Be someone you represent how the word of God says, do not accept anyone who mislead the word of God.
6. Do not blaming people. If there is reason to blame them use a good way of help, advise them gently and build up where is wrong.
7. Do not be a gossiper and do not say the wrong to a person.
8. Do not be remonstrance but warn gently. Do not mock, hate or become troublesome to
people who mistaken you but hate the bad things they're doing in order to avoid evil. Doing that you will avoid to be offender as they are.9. Appreciate for every good thing done to you and say thank.
10. Do not be one of flattering to people or older.
11. Do not be one who prefer arguments. And if it happens someone argues with you avoid not to compete.
12. Be gentle and do not be harsh with people. As you forgive your enemies God will defend you and be on your side.
13. Do not be one of fighting, hitting or harrace with people.
14. Be humble and do not boast to anything but if there is a good thing done, left it to others to praise you. Know that all the qualities, worthy and good things are from God who created all.
15. Do not be disgruntled, don't take care of intrigue and hatred. Release and forget everything that was mistaken and forgive, neither do not remember no more.
16. Do not retaliate, instead doing good for the one who erred. Only God he swears revenge. Although God is he swears revenge you do not wish your enemy for bad and do not enjoy whenever they get evil.
17. Do not libel people. If you told the weakness of a man do not go and telling what was talked.
18. Love and be self-acceptance physically in your ability, then the people will love you and accept you as you are.
19. Keep your secrets to others.
20. Do not be quick to anger
21. Remember the names of the classmates and those who are familiar with you even to one you know.
22. Do not be too outspoken, but instead be a good listener.
23. Speak not lying or exaggerating or misrepresenting the facts.
24. Any conversation between you and other should be evenly be the word of God. If being contrary to the word of God, turn away and escape from it.
25. Finish discord or conflict with others peacefully by talking to the person.
26. Learn to forgive and forget the mistakes of the people, neither do not remember no more.
27. When you make a mistake, admit, confess and apologize.
28. Respect and tolerate the ideas and opinions of others that are different from yours.
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